Reconnecting… for Favors Only

Someone I haven’t spoken to in over a decade suddenly messaged me asking for help. We weren’t even that close back then, so the whole thing felt a bit strange. And it really made me think—strong relationships don’t just magically exist when you need them. They’re built over time, through real connection, shared moments, and just checking in now and then. If you want something meaningful, it takes more than popping up when it’s convenient—it takes effort, even in the quiet seasons.